Session 1

ANALYSE MY DESIRE TO LOVE AND CHANGE

DAY 1

An Education In Love and Developing My Will to Love

How Do I Feel About Love?

How do I feel about change?

  • Keep feeling your feelings
  • Don’t let the blind follow the blind
  • Your ‘worth’ does not equal ‘what you know’
  • Having a realisation
  • Rediscover the joy of finding out new things
  • Be willing to address that our definition of love is flawed
  • Sin = missing the mark of love
  • Be in the world but not the world
  • Change what you think about God through associations with interactions with family, friends and educators
  • What we do to get some worth is scary. We go to extremes
  • Feel the fear and it will be gone

DAY 2

How and Why I Remain Unloving

  • e.g. Display financials – be transparent and live in truth
  • Desire to discover physical and emotional truth – choose it
  • Resistance = pain

Review – Day 1 & 2

  • Think about your source of education
  • World’s definition of Love = Sin (Not God’s definition of Love)
  • How I feel about love
    • Love is harmful
    • God is a Tyrant
    • Sourced from Childhood
  • How I feel about change
    • Terrified
    • Want to remain as I am
    • Fear
    • Wanting to hold onto beliefs
  • How and Why I remain Unloving
    • Deny
    • Excuses
    • Justify
    • Blame
    • Minimise
    • Lie